Today’s Bad Advice: Judge everyone
I’m judging you right now.
It’s not a bad thing. Actually, it’s honest. We all judge people. We do it all day long. So be honest about it. ”I’m not judging you” is a lie.
The key is to not pass judgement. There is a big difference. Judge people, so you know how to navigate around them. But don’t judge them to render anything upon them. So when someone says “im not judging you”, feel free to judge them as not knowing what they hell that they are saying. Just use that to steer clear of them as opposed to calling them stupid.
